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As our parents age, it’s natural for family roles to shift. The ones who once cared for us may now need our support—help with household tasks, doctor’s appointments, medication management, or ensuring good nutrition. Whether you’re stopping by in person or checking in with a call, caregiving often becomes part of daily life.

While caring for a parent or elderly loved one can be rewarding, it can also bring challenges, especially when juggling your family or career. As your loved one’s needs grow, so can the pressure. If they live alone, the worry only increases. Without enough support, family caregivers often experience caregiver burnout or fatigue. It’s real, and one of the most common reasons families begin exploring senior living communities like Sopris Lodge at Carbondale.

How to Avoid Caregiver Burnout

Whether you’re helping a parent, older friend, or relative, caregiving takes a toll—physically, emotionally, and even financially. Burnout is real and well-documented. It can stem from the emotional strain of watching a loved one decline, especially with conditions like Alzheimer’s or related dementia, or from the physical demands of helping with activities of daily living like dressing and bathing. Many caregivers handle these responsibilities alone, adding to the stress. Some reduce work hours or leave jobs altogether, creating added financial pressure.

If you know someone caring for a parent, watch for signs of burnout, including constant fatigue, mood swings and irritability, resentment, withdrawing from typical social events, trouble sleeping, or changes in appetite.

So, what can a caregiver do to refresh? Experts say it’s important to take breaks for yourself. If you have siblings who can help, encourage sharing the responsibilities so the duties are more of a team effort. Additionally, consider joining a support group or book club that tackles caregiving topics. Sometimes, it’s helpful to know others are facing similar challenges, and these peers may share information that helps them cope. It’s important to create boundaries, too. In some situations, you should encourage your parent or loved one to get professional help – you can’t do it all. Another tactic many health professionals recommend is tapping into local resources. For example, many regions have area councils on aging or senior centers; these can be a wealth of helpful information.

And finally, experts suggest some self-care. Whether it is taking time to meditate, take a walk, or visit a gym, having a daily and healthy routine that gives you a physical and mental break can help you balance the challenges of caregiving for others.

As summer approaches, consider a respite stay at a senior living community. These short-term stays—usually a few weeks to a month—offer fully furnished apartments, daily care, meals, and social engagement. They allow your loved one to stay safe and supported while you take time for a worry-free vacation or attend to personal needs. Some communities also offer Day Retreats, ideal for families seeking weekday support for loved ones with memory loss.

For more information about local resources, short-term respite stays, or how to avoid caregiver burnout, please give the team at Sopris Lodge at Carbondale a call at 970-678-0057 or visit soprislodge.com.

Many caregivers and older adults worry about the cost of senior living and long-term care. These expenses can consume a significant part of a senior’s monthly income, even for people who thought they had saved enough. How people pay for senior care depends on their financial situation and the kinds of services they use. Seniors and their families may rely on a combination of funding sources, including personal savings, pensions or retirement accounts, investment income, or proceeds of a home sale.

Professional care in assisted living facilities or continuing care retirement communities is typically paid out of pocket.

Each year, our nation celebrates our veterans with numerous observances to keep their service and sacrifice top of mind. But beyond remembrance, the United States is committed to supporting veterans, especially as they age and require care. For the more than 10 million war veterans living in the U.S., and their spouses, a little-known Veterans Affairs benefit called Aid and Attendance can significantly offset the cost of home care, assisted living, or nursing care.

With many military bases located in Colorado, it’s no wonder that veterans choose to retire in the Centennial State, and as they age, many have successfully accessed this valuable benefit.

Aid and Attendance Benefit Details

The VA Aid and Attendance benefit is a monthly payment added to the regular VA pension for eligible veterans and surviving spouses who need help with daily activities due to disability, illness, or age.

The benefit extends to veterans of the Iraq Gulf War, the Korean and Vietnam wars, World War II, and even members of the American Merchant Marines during that same period of the 1940s. The benefit usually extends to surviving spouses of veterans as well.

Monthly benefit amounts vary from approximately $1,500 for a surviving spouse needing care to about $2,800 for a veteran and spouse who both require assistance. These funds can help defray the cost of assisted living or home care, which averages more than $5,500 per month, according to SeniorLiving.org.

The supplemental funding of the Aid and Attendance benefit helps cover the cost of assistance with activities of daily living, such as dressing, bathing, eating, and toileting. It can be used for care provided at home, in assisted living communities like Sopris Lodge, or skilled nursing facilities.

Veterans or their families can apply for Aid and Attendance by filing VA Form 21-2680, providing the required medical documentation showing a need for assistance, and submitting this to the VA Pension Management Center. Applications can also be submitted online through the VA website, in person at a VA office, or with the help of a Veterans Service Officer.

If you think you or a loved one may be eligible for the Aid and Attendance benefit – just like several of our proud veteran residents who have served our nation – talk to our leasing agents. They can assist you with questions or help guide you to a nearby Veterans Service Office. To contact the Sopris Lodge at Carbondale Senior Living team, call 970-678-0057 or visit soprislodge.com.

DISCLAIMER: Sopris Lodge at Carbondale Senior Living cannot determine eligibility for veterans’ benefits; only the Veterans Administration can determine applicant eligibility.

With the changing of the clocks (one hour forward) this spring, we all plod through the first couple of weeks as our circadian rhythm, the sleep-wake cycle, tries to catch up. For many people living with dementia, this sleep-wake cycle can be interrupted daily in a condition called Sundowning Syndrome. This symptom of dementia causes individuals to face increased confusion, agitation, anxiety and sometimes aggression in late afternoon or early evening.

For families supporting a loved one living with dementia, it can be quite distressing to try and manage this condition, which can manifest in confusion and disorientation, pacing, irritability and mood swings, wandering at night and worse, paranoia.

Doctors say Sundowning is believed to be caused by a combination of factors, including disruptions in the body’s internal clock, fatigue, reduced lighting, sensory overload, changes in brain function, or sometimes the side effects of medicine or dehydration.

How can families help when Sundowning occurs?

To reduce the stress on families and the individual experiencing Sundowning symptoms, families can take several steps to help a loved one. The first step is establishing a consistent routine, such as regular times for waking up, meals and bedtime. If possible, limit naps to encourage more sound night sleep, and plan activities for earlier in the day to reduce evening overstimulation.

Healthy sleeping habits are critical as well. You can support this by exposing your loved one to natural daylight to help regulate the individual’s body clock. You can also limit caffeine, sugar or large late-day meals, and create a calming routine near bedtime. Also, encourage light exercise during the day. A simple walk or a routine of stretching or yoga can reduce restlessness later in the day.

Next, consider adjusting your home environment. You can do this by keeping the home well-lit, especially as night falls. This will help reduce shadows and potential confusion. In addition, reduce noise and distractions, such as loud TV or radio, and limit late-day visitors. Consider blackout curtains as well.

If your loved one experiences Sundowning symptoms, reassure them calmly. You can do this by speaking softly or offering a gentle physical touch if they enjoy this. You can also try to redirect the negative behavior by shifting attention to a relaxing activity like listening to familiar music, folding laundry or doing an easy puzzle.

Keeping a journal on what triggers symptoms – or periods of calm – will help you learn important factors that will benefit your loved one. Monitor for foods, activities, lighting, sounds, and anything else that might provide clues for how you can adjust how you support your loved one.

Finally, if Sundowning symptoms become too much for you to handle at home, consult with your doctor. They can help assess if your loved one is being affected by medications or other conditions such as an infection that might be causing discomfort. If symptoms persist and become too complex to handle at home, they may have recommendations for where you can get help.

Caring for someone with sundowning can be challenging, but by creating a structured, calming environment and providing reassurance, families can help ease symptoms and improve their loved one’s well-being.

As part of its continuum of living options for seniors, Sopris Lodge at Carbondale Senior Living offers specialized memory care in addition to assisted living and independent living. In our memory care neighborhood and Day Retreat at the Lodge, team members have been trained to support residents experiencing Sundowner’s syndrome and other side effects of Alzheimer’s and related dementia conditions. Give us a call at 970-678-0057 if you have any questions. We’re here to help.

The Day Retreat at the Lodge is available from 7 a.m.-7 p.m. MT on weekdays with both full- and half-day options. Call 970-678-0057 to learn more or schedule an assessment.

Caring for a loved one living with Alzheimer’s and related dementia is challenging. Increasingly, families are turning to supportive day retreat programs that support seniors during the weekdays. When a caregiver is busy with work, running errands, or just needing some personal time to relax and focus on their health and well-being, a day program ensures their loved one or patient is safe, well-cared for, and enjoying their time away from home.

Sopris Lodge at Carbondale Senior Living’s Day Retreat at the Lodge program is for individuals who need dementia-care services and support with activities of daily living. Located in our intimate memory care and assisted living community, participants spend time with peers with similar interests and enjoy chef-prepared meals and snacks with access to supportive services and exceptional amenities. Day Retreat members participate in community events, wellness programs, and activities and get to know residents and team members in a safe and engaging environment. The Day Retreat at the Lodge is also a great way for older adults and families to get to know our senior lifestyle community before considering a temporary short-term respite stay or becoming a permanent resident.

Benefits of Sopris Lodge’s Day Retreat at the Lodge Program for Seniors

Socialization

Loneliness and isolation are common issues many seniors struggle with as they cope with memory loss and decreased mobility. Day programs allow older adults to participate in social activities, games, music, and opportunities for growth and learning alongside friends in a safe and supported environment with specially trained caregivers nearby to assist as needed.

Independence

Getting out of the house and having choices when it comes to what activities they are involved in, whom they spend time with, and even what to order for lunch promotes independence and confidence in seniors. The freedom to have more say in their daytime activities can also boost their mental and physical health and overall well-being.

Quality Care

Older adults enrolled in a day program are surrounded by dementia-care professionals who offer supportive services like medication and incontinence management and assistance with activities of daily living. They are also adept at handling unusual or aggressive behaviors that can be associated with memory loss and ensuring that program participants are safe and comfortable at all times.

Benefits of Day Programs for Caregivers

Peace of Mind

When it isn’t possible to be with a loved one, day programs offer caregivers peace of mind knowing their loved one is engaged in fun activities with peers while being looked after by specially trained professionals in a safe and supportive environment.

Better Care

Caregiving for a loved one living with memory loss requires time and energy. That’s why it’s essential for caregivers to learn how to cope with daily challenges and avoid burnout. Utilizing a day program like Sopris Lodge’s Day Retreat at the Lodge can provide a much-needed break for caregivers to focus on their own health, relax, and rejuvenate so they can continue to manage the demands of caregiving.

Seniors living with dementia often require specialized care and ongoing supervision that family caregivers may find challenging to provide. As your loved one’s condition progresses, dementia symptoms and behaviors may worsen, and there may be a fork in the road where you must decide to arrange for care at home or consider a move to a senior living community that offers memory care.

This complex decision requires an understanding of what home care organizations and memory care providers offer for dementia care. And the decision often depends on the individual’s condition, needs, budget, and support system.

What is a memory care community?

At some point, caregivers may find that moving a senior to a memory care community will be beneficial as their dementia progresses. Memory care facilities provide long-term care for seniors living with Alzheimer’s or related dementia. This type of residential community typically offers specialized memory care services that meet the unique needs of its residents. The services in these communities are designed to improve the quality of life for seniors with memory loss by reducing confusion and stimulating cognitive function within a secure setting. That secure setting, and the collective support of a team approach to care, is often a very important factor for families.

Memory care communities can be a part of another senior living community that provides multiple levels of care, or they can be a stand-alone facility. For example, here at Sopris Lodge at Carbondale, we offer memory care as well as assisted living and independent living apartments, respite care and day retreat services.

Memory care often includes many of the same services as assisted living, such as assistance with activities of daily living, meal preparation, and medication management. They also offer unique services, activities, and amenities tailored to seniors with cognitive impairment. Communities that care for seniors with middle- to end-stage dementia may also be better equipped to handle the challenges associated with wandering, aggression, and other dementia-related behaviors.

Memory care communities meet the care needs of those experiencing cognitive decline and memory loss by offering various services:

• Personal care that assists seniors who have Alzheimer’s or other forms of dementia with activities of daily living, such as dressing, bathing, or medication management
• Safety features, which typically include security cameras, emergency call buttons, and locked doors to prevent wandering
• Full-time supervision by team members trained to attend to the needs of seniors living with dementia
• Behavioral interventions to help with symptoms such as aggression
• Activities, programs, and social events designed to stimulate cognitive function for seniors living with dementia
• Intentionally designed spaces that ease anxiety and agitation, and simplified building layouts for easy navigation

Many memory care communities utilize a “person-centered” approach to providing care. This process focuses on building close relationships between residents and team members while promoting individuality. Person-centered memory care communities emphasize respecting and valuing seniors as individuals, regardless of their cognitive abilities.

What is home care for dementia?

Home care provides services to assist seniors in their homes. Home care may be offered by independent caregivers hired as contractors, or by home care agencies that employ professional caregivers. These caregivers offer companionship, assistance with daily activities, and dementia care, usually for an hourly fee. Levels of care provided can vary from a few hours of weekly housekeeping to 24-hour daily supervision, based on each person’s needs and individual care plan.

Home care may be more appropriate for individuals with early to moderate stages of dementia who can still function with support, which can often be family members to supplement home care staff. This option allows the individual to be in a familiar environment, get one-on-one care, and benefit from flexibility in scheduling. Home modifications may be necessary for safety and security.

Assessing the right dementia care option for your family

Budget can be a major factor for families in timing and selecting which option should be taken. While the price of memory care is typically higher than assisted living, the all-inclusive pricing can be attractive to families who balance this cost against the cost of running a home (food, utilities, insurance, maintenance) and the cost of the home care providers.

Deciding which type of care your loved one living with dementia needs can feel like a daunting task at first. Learning about the differences between memory care communities and home care providers is a good place to start.

If you would like to speak with our memory care team as you explore your options, our experts are a resource here to assist you. Please give them a call at 970-678-0057. Sopris Lodge at Carbondale offers seniors and their families an intimate setting for living in a quaint, Rocky Mountain town.

People living with Alzheimer’s or other dementia may remember their far-off past but might not be able to remember an event that happened yesterday. That’s why building a memory box can be a great way to connect with your loved one as they recall different people and events from their past.

By providing concrete, tangible items that start conversations and spark memories, memory boxes can help family members, friends and care providers to engage individuals living with memory loss in a healthy, meaningful way. Here are a few suggestions to keep in mind before creating your own memory box:

Choose the right container

Find a suitable container to serve as your memory box. It should be sturdy and easy to store and lift. Your container can be as simple as a shoebox or Tupperware container, or more ornate like a basket or a chest. You can also decorate the box with drawings, small glued-on items, or photos to make it even more unique.

Find meaningful objects

Find objects to put in your memory box that have a specific memory attached to them. These can be objects that reflect your loved one’s interests and hobbies, or just ones with personal significance. Some ideas would be family photos, a favorite book, sports memorabilia, CDs or tapes, artwork from grandchildren, vacation souvenirs, a favorite recipe, old newspaper clippings, or a favorite piece of jewelry or clothing.

Pick stimulating and safe items

Senses like touch and smell can help spur memory just as much, or even more so, than sight, so consider choosing items with different textures and fragrances. If you include a CD, be sure to play it with your loved one. And be sure to choose memory-related items that are not sharp, dangerous, or heavy to handle.

Considering including notes and clues

The significance of certain items might not come to your loved one right away. Try labeling items with cues and include a notecard or list in the box detailing all the items with a short description or context clues to suggest why they are meaningful.

Memory boxes are a simple tool for spurring connection and engagement, but the most important part of making a memory box is what happens after you hand it over to a loved one. Both you and your loved one will cherish the process of going through the box, talking about each item, recalling memories, and enjoying the conversations that arise.

At Sopris Lodge at Carbondale, we’re committed to supporting seniors in our community to live well and age well. Call us at 970-678-0057 to learn more about our independent and assisted living and memory care services for those 55+.